Being terminated from a job is an emotional issue. You may be a casualty of downsizing, office politics or you may have even been fired for just cause. Regardless of the reason, you must remain professional, even though your first reaction will be to let your employer (and anyone within hearing distance) know what you think of the situation. Be ready to accept responsibility for any wrong doing on your part.
Even if you think you were fired unfairly, it is important to never “burn your bridges” with former employers. Like it or not, it is highly likely that future employers will want to talk with them about your on the job performance, and the last thing you need is for your former boss to tell your prospective boss what a lunatic you are! Along these same lines, doing physical damage to office equipment is NEVER an option, and can land you in jail. Do not touch or push the person who let you go as you could very easily wind up with assault charges on your record. (It’s happened more than once.)
Instead, swallow your pride and set up a meeting to discuss the wording for the statement that will go in your file. Ask your boss whether he or she would provide you with a letter attesting to those areas in which you excelled. Then, WRITE this letter for his/her signature.
Complaining to your co-workers, replacement or future employers will only make you look petty and even a bit unstable. You may be perceived as someone who is hard to get along with or someone who doesn’t accept responsibility for your actions. Either way, neither of these will make for a good reference in the future.
If you WERE at fault for making imprudent decisions, you don’t need to go into details about the events that led to your being fired, but you should admit your guilt. Your prospective employer may or may not want to discuss things further with you. But, be aware that he is likely to find out what happened anyway. It will speak volumes about you if you are up-front about things.
However, don’t denigrate yourself either by making remarks about how dumb you were or how your colleagues caused the problem: it really doesn’t matter all that much. Instead, put your best foot forward and get on with your new position.